Two Cities, Four Days, and a Love Story That Didn’t Cost the Earth
When Revibe founder Shanya planned her wedding, she rewrote the rules - creating two unforgettable celebrations that were stylish, deeply personal, and kind to the planet.
“Our wedding had to be true to who we are - fun, authentic, and full of love. And you can’t show love without extending it to the planet.”.
A Wedding That Reflected
Their Values
For Shanya and her partner Luke, what mattered most was simple: great music, great food, meaningful conversations, and time with the people they loved. Décor, formalities, and excess didn’t make the list.
Instead of following tradition for the sake of it, they focused on creating two experiences that felt deeply personal—one in Sydney, one in Bangkok—while keeping sustainability at the heart of every choice.
“Pick one to three things that matter most to you as a couple, and plan everything else around them.”
“In Bangkok, we chose Praya Palazzo—a riverside palace designed by Italian artists in 1923. With its timeless beauty, we hardly needed any extra décor; the venue itself told the story.”
Two Cities, Two Very Different Venues
Sydney’s celebration was set in a laneway, with raw energy of a live band, DJ and Dark Mofo setting.
For Bangkok, the couple chose Praya Palazzo, a riverside palace designed by Italian artists in 1923. Its historic charm, ornate architecture, and lush gardens created a setting so rich in character that very little extra décor was needed.
“In Bangkok, we chose Praya Palazzo—a riverside palace designed by Italian artists in 1923. With its timeless beauty, we hardly needed any extra décor; the venue itself told the story.”
Even the florals were intentional. Rather than importing flowers, they cut leaves and blooms from Shanya’s mother’s garden, creating a simple, meaningful tablescape.
Rewriting the Rules of Bridal Style
Shanya is known for her love of fashion, so it was no surprise she had five different outfits for the four-day celebrations—two for Sydney, three for Bangkok. But what made her choices different was her commitment to circular fashion.
She rented her traditional Thai evening dress, bought a Camilla & Marc white pantsuit she’s already worn again, and sourced a Zimmermann dress from an outlet with plans to resell or rent it.
“I didn’t want to compromise on feeling my absolute best - but even if I bought something new, I made sure it could be reused, rented, or resold afterwards.”
Her most challenging find? A Rachel Gilbert gown she’d fallen in love with that sold out instantly. “I emailed the brand asking if I could buy the sample or rent it, but they had none left. Months later, I finally got the call that one was available, just weeks before the wedding,” she says. That gown has now been listed for hire or purchase, ready for another bride to enjoy.
“Two weddings. Five outfits.
All chosen with reuse in mind.”
Designing an Atmosphere, Not Excess
For both weddings, Shanya and her partner wanted the focus to be on atmosphere - not Instagram perfect styling.
In Sydney, they hired music gear, lighting, and even a smoke machine to recreate the moody vibe of their favourite festival, Dark Mofo.
In Bangkok, the outdoor setting was cooled by fans made from recycled paper, given as practical keepsakes for guests in the 35-degree heat.
“We chose venues that already had beauty in their surroundings, so we didn’t need to add much. Nature was the décor.”
Sustainable, But Never Stuffy
Food was another big part of the celebration.
In Sydney, guests were treated to giant paella pans rather than a formal sit-down meal, with late-night canapés keeping energy high for the dance floor.
In Bangkok, four different Thai restaurants each brought their signature dishes, creating a curated tasting experience. Leftovers were packed up by the restaurants and given to guests to take home - no waste.
The Joyful Little Imperfections
Despite meticulous planning, not everything went perfectly—and that’s what made it memorable.
“At one point, the wedding cake wouldn’t fit into the fridge and had to be carried across the street to the hotel.”
And instead of a traditional first dance, the couple performed a song together on the keyboard - it was the song that Luke taught Shanya how to play piano when they first met.
“It was chaotic but beautiful. Everyone was singing along - even though I still can’t play that song after 10 years!
It’s these small, imperfect moments that Shanya remembers most: the laughter, the spontaneity, and the joy that didn’t need staging.
What She’d Do Differently
Looking back, there’s only one thing Shanya wishes she had done differently.
“I would have hired a videographer—not for the perfect wedding video, but to remember the music, the laughter, the noise of it all.”
